Jed and I celebrated our 5 year anniversary this June. It seems like a big milestone...that's 1,825 days! I thought I'd share 5 reasons why I'm thankful for Jed and our marriage...
1. I think one (of the many) reason God gave me Jed was to loosen me up a bit. I'm naturally a little high strung, a little bit of a worrier/planner/stresser, etc. I've got some preferences (that are, just that) and I take some things a little too seriously. Enter Jed. Jed is laid back and Jed can roll with the punches. Jed trust the Lord and Jed knows how to surrender his preferences to follow God's lead. I'm really thankful that I am growing in these areas because of him.
2. Jed loves me as I am and where I'm at. He doesn't care what I make for dinner or what I'm wearing or how crazy the house is when he gets home after a long day. He doesn't judge how I spend my time during the day when the laundry isn't put away or when I want to order pizza for dinner because I wanted to rest in the afternoon. He has loved and cared for me through 3 pregnancies, 3 deliveries and 3 post partum time periods and not even batted an eye (and you all know that is emotionally and physically hard and gross stuff!). Seriously.
3. He is our kids favorite and he has their hearts. He works hard to love them and play with them even though he spends less time with them during the day and they ALL adore him.
4. I'm thankful for marriage in that it has revealed so many things that I didn't even know I struggled with or was bad at. God has and will continue to use Jed and our marriage to refine me. I just need to stay humble.
5. Jed is really fun. I know this isn't one of the 5 love languages, but I think if it were, having fun and laughing would be one of his. This goes back to #1 a little bit but I feel like especially after having 3 kids, my mind is exhausted from mentally multi tasking all day and I have a hard time winding down. I'm constantly thinking about who needs to eat, who needs to sleep, what time we are doing this or that. It's not bad to be organized but it is bad when it takes away your joy and you can't enjoy life with the person/people you love. So Jed, one of my goals for the next 5 years of our marriage is to have more fun with you. Laugh more. Stay up late and talk more. Smile more. And be more thankful.
Instead of gifts, we decided to try and take a trip for our anniversary this year. This went from an idea to reality in the matter of a couple hours thanks to about a million emails exchanged between me, Jed and my parents and Expedia.com. Since my sister and Bud just moved to the Washington DC area and Jed is a huge history
nerd buff we thought that would be a great place to go. We drove to Minnesota, dropped the big kids with my parents and hopped a plane with Miss Tiegan tagging along.
Tiegan was the best and I mean BEST little traveler. A lady across the aisle from us told us she was the cutest baby she had ever seen. Ever. I must agree.
Excited to see Auntie Em at the airport!
Claire and Will were soooooo excited to see us. Well, maybe mostly Tiegan, but us a little bit too.
We did lots of sight seeing that Saturday! We tried to take as much in as possible!
I tried to do a panoramic picture of the World War II memorial. I'm not a great iphone photographer.
The White House!
If you can't tell from the beads of sweat on our foreheads, it was hot. Really hot.
We also did the Museum of American History. That was our last stop of the day. Between the heat, the walking and nursing a baby, I was feeling a bit dehydrated even though I tried to keep up with water. It was impossible. But I recovered once we got home.
The next day we went to the National Marine Corps Museum.
Tiegan wasn't impressed but we were! Jed would have read every single caption on every single artifact in every single exhibit if we had all day.
It was fun to watch Em and Bud love on Tiegan.
She really is the sweetest baby.
She even fell asleep DURING take off on the flight back to Minnesota.
A great little traveler!
I can't forget to mention that the trip would not have been possible without our beloved Ma and Papa. The big kids had the best weekend ever and are still talking about all of the fun things they did and places they ate, etc. We will gladly go on a trip annnnnytime if they want to keep our kids again! I did miss them terribly but I knew they were in great hands.